- Totally relate to that drainage story... sometimes pros just get tunnel vision.
- Wonder if it's ego or just habit? I've found the really seasoned ones actually appreciate questions—keeps them sharp.
- Maybe it's about how the concerns are presented too, like conversational vs. confrontational?
"Wonder if it's ego or just habit? I've found the really seasoned ones actually appreciate questions—keeps them sharp."
Yeah, I think it's more habit than ego. Had a similar thing when renovating a client's kitchen: the electrician was dead-set on placing outlets in spots that just didn't make sense practically. When I gently pointed out how the client actually uses the space, he paused, reconsidered, and adjusted. Sometimes pros just need a nudge to step back and see the bigger picture...
I dunno, sometimes it really is ego. Had a plumber once who got annoyed when I asked about cheaper fixtures—acted like I questioned his expertise. Not every pro welcomes input, seasoned or not...
Yeah, I've been there too. Worked with an electrician once who got defensive when I suggested a different lighting brand—acted like I'd insulted his whole career. Eventually, we talked it out and realized he just wanted to ensure quality and reliability. Sometimes pros get attached to what they know works best. Still, a good professional usually listens and explains their reasoning without getting defensive...
"Sometimes pros get attached to what they know works best."
Haha, yeah, I've definitely seen that happen. It's not always about ego, though—often it's just comfort and reliability. When I work with contractors or specialists, I usually approach it step-by-step to avoid misunderstandings. First, I clearly outline the project goals and why certain choices matter from a design perspective. Then, I ask them directly about their preferred brands or methods and why they trust them. Usually, they'll have solid reasons based on experience, like fewer callbacks or better warranties.
If I still think another option might be better, I'll gently suggest it by framing it as a question—something like, "Have you ever tried brand X? I've heard good things about their durability..." This way, it feels less like I'm challenging their expertise and more like I'm genuinely curious (which I am!). Most pros appreciate the chance to explain their reasoning, and sometimes they'll even surprise me by being open to trying something new.
But yeah, occasionally you'll run into someone who's just stubbornly attached to their favorite brand... humans gonna human, right?
