I get the hesitation about family funding—been there myself. Built a spec home with my brother-in-law once, and even though we had everything spelled out clearly, things got awkward when the project hit some delays. Nothing major, just typical stuff like permits taking longer than expected. But suddenly every family gathering felt like a subtle business meeting. Eventually went with outside investors for the next project, and honestly, it was refreshing to keep the personal and professional worlds separate. Different strokes, though...
"But suddenly every family gathering felt like a subtle business meeting."
This resonates strongly with me. I once partnered with my cousin on a green retrofit project—everything was meticulously documented, yet minor setbacks inevitably blurred boundaries. Keeping business separate from family definitely simplifies things in the long run.
"yet minor setbacks inevitably blurred boundaries."
Totally get this—boundaries can get fuzzy fast. Wondering though, does investor funding complicate things even more? Like, how much say do investors typically want in day-to-day decisions compared to banks...?
Like, how much say do investors typically want in day-to-day decisions compared to banks...?
Investor funding can definitely add another layer of complexity, especially when it comes to decision-making. Banks usually stick to financial oversight, but investors might want more hands-on involvement since it's their money directly at stake. When we built our custom home, we went the bank route precisely because we wanted clearer boundaries. But I'm curious—does anyone have experience with investors who stayed pretty hands-off, or is that just wishful thinking...?
I've seen both sides of it, honestly. Had one investor who was practically invisible—just checked in every few months to see if we were still standing, haha. But another one... let's just say he had opinions on paint colors and cabinet knobs. Luck of the draw, I guess.
