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Neighbor wants driveway access through my property—is this normal?

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kayaker98
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You're definitely smart to think about specifics upfront. Had a similar situation a couple years back when my neighbor was renovating their backyard. They asked to use our driveway for "just a few deliveries." Well, "a few" turned into daily heavy trucks rumbling through for weeks, and our landscaping took a beating. Wish I'd thought of a renewable agreement then—would've saved us some headaches and awkward conversations later.

One thing I'd recommend is clearly outlining who's responsible for repairs if damage happens. Even minor stuff like cracked pavers or tire marks can add up surprisingly fast, especially if you've invested in quality materials. Being upfront about expectations now can actually keep things neighborly down the line, since everyone knows exactly where they stand.

Good luck with it...sounds like you're already on the right track!

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"Being upfront about expectations now can actually keep things neighborly down the line, since everyone knows exactly where they stand."

Couldn't agree more. I've seen projects go sideways fast when assumptions replace clear communication. Setting boundaries early can feel awkward, but it's way less uncomfortable than sorting out misunderstandings later...speaking from experience here.

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dieselp56
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I've seen similar driveway access issues turn messy real quick... had a situation once where neighbors assumed informal permission meant permanent rights.

"Setting boundaries early can feel awkward"
but believe me, it's worth it to avoid headaches later. Good luck sorting it out.

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drakew40
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Totally agree with this. I've worked with clients who've had similar driveway access issues, and it almost always escalates if boundaries aren't clear from the start. Informal agreements can seem harmless at first, but they often lead to misunderstandings down the road.

"Setting boundaries early can feel awkward"
—exactly this. Better to have one uncomfortable conversation now than deal with ongoing tension later... trust me, I've seen it happen too many times.

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robotics_nick
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Yeah, informal agreements can get messy fast. Had a client once who let their neighbor use the driveway "occasionally," and before they knew it, the neighbor was parking there daily and even complaining about blocked access—on my client's own property. Awkward doesn't even begin to cover that conversation... Clear boundaries upfront save everyone headaches later. Plus, if you're into sustainable landscaping or permeable driveways, you definitely don't want someone else's car leaking oil all over your eco-friendly setup. Just sayin'.

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