“if you can’t talk honestly about what works and what doesn’t, it turns into a slog.”
That’s been my experience too. I’ve worked with designers who had impressive portfolios, but if they’re not open to feedback or just don’t “get” what you’re after, it’s a recipe for frustration. Sometimes the lesser-known folks are more invested in the project and actually listen. It’s not always about the name—chemistry and communication matter way more than people think.
Sometimes the lesser-known folks are more invested in the project and actually listen.
That’s been my experience too, honestly. I’d rather work with someone who’s willing to have a real back-and-forth, even if they’re not a “big name.” But how do you balance that with making sure they’re actually capable? Like, is there a way to tell early on if someone’s just nodding along or if they’ll actually deliver? I always worry about getting stuck with someone who’s nice but can’t execute.
I totally get that worry—someone can be super friendly and enthusiastic, but then you realize they’re just… not getting it done. I usually ask for a portfolio and some references, but honestly, I pay a lot of attention to how they talk through their process. If they can explain why they made certain choices in past projects (even small ones), that’s a good sign. If it’s all “I just thought it looked nice,” I get a little nervous.
If it’s all “I just thought it looked nice,” I get a little nervous.
Exactly—if they can’t walk you through their choices, that’s a red flag. I once hired someone who had a gorgeous Instagram but couldn’t explain a single thing about layout or lighting. Never again. I want someone who can talk about function, not just aesthetics.
Couldn’t agree more—if someone can’t explain why they made a choice, it’s tough to trust their process. I’ve seen beautiful spaces that just don’t work for daily life, or worse, end up being energy hogs. It’s not just about pretty pictures. Asking about materials, daylight, and how the space will actually be used is so important. You’re totally on the right track looking for substance over style.
